56 | "I'm Coming Out": Queer Awakenings in Romance

It’s Pride Month, and Meg & Nikki are kicking things off with a reflective conversation about queer identity and coming out romance stories we love (especially the messy, nonlinear, and sometimes late-blooming kind).

Listen in for:

• What shaped their early understandings of sexual identity and orientation

• The multiple “F’s” in a framework designed for awakening…tingles…in the groiny bits…

• Their favourite queer awakening romance stories involving oblivious golden retriever types

• And why bisexuality deserves better storytelling

We’re kicking off a full month of celebrating queerness in all its forms: awkward, evolving, and absolutely worth honouring.

Books & Media We Mention:

• Trophy Doms New York series by Kate Hawthorne

• Zenni Optical

Our Fave Coming Out/Awakening Stories:

Nikki’s List:

• Fake It Till you Make Out by Isla Olsen

• Dirty Forty by Mia Monroe

• Thick as Thieves by Lucy Lennox

• Irresponsible Puckboy by Eden Finely and Saxon James

• The Wedding Date by Sean Ashcroft

• It’s Complicated by Willow Dixon

• Just a Bit Wrecked by Alessandra Hazard

• 10 Ways to Accidentally Fall In Love by Emmy Sanders

• The Fly Half by Charlie Novak

• Learning to Feel by NR Walker

• Party Favors by Erin McLellen

• Red White & Royal Blue

• Honeymoon for One by Keira Andrews

• Strawberry Kisses by Charlie Novak

Meg’s List:

• Tal Bauer

  • You & Me

  • Gravity

  • How to say I do

  • The Quarterback

• Crossroads by Riley Hart (double bi-awakening)

• Eden Finley

  • Fake out

  • Blindsided

  • Fandom & Encore

• Astrid Parker Doesn’t Fail by Ashley Herring Blake (FF)

• Set the record straight by Hannah Bonam Young

• Emmy Sanders

  • Fool Hearts

  • 10 ways to accidentally

• Sara Cate - salacious players club

  • Give me more (MFM)

  • Madame (FFM)

• Heated Rivalry

• Borrowing Blue by Lucy Lennox

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