First Dates & Soulmates
First Dates & Soulmates
58 | Butch, Femme & Found Family: Celebrating FF Love Stories
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58 | Butch, Femme & Found Family: Celebrating FF Love Stories

it’s all about the L in LGBTQ+

This week, it’s all about the L in LGBTQ+. Nikki & Meg dive into the world of women-loving-women romances: the genre’s underrepresentation, share standout books they’ve read recently, and explore their own relationships to sapphic stories.

Listen in for:

  • Why FF romance still doesn’t get the love it deserves

  • Stereotypes vs. archetypes and how to tell the difference

  • Trope differences across FF and MM romance

  • And what makes sapphic stories feel distinct and powerful

With a mix of recs, reflections, and one tiny Rent rant (justice for Joanne!), this episode celebrates the full spectrum of sapphic love.

Books & Media We Mention:

  • Scout and the Lavender Girl by Kelly Fox

  • Written in the Stars by Alexandria Bellefleur

  • Delilah Green Doesn’t Care by Ashley Herring Blake

  • When You Least Expect It by Haley Cass

  • The Romance Recipe by Ruby Barrett

  • Mistakes Were Made by Meryl Wilsner

  • The Lady’s Guide to Celestial Mechanics by Olivia Waite

  • An Island Princess Starts a Scandal by Adriana Herrera

  • The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo by Taylor Jenkins Reid

  • Rent, Killing Eve, The L Word, Grey’s Anatomy

  • Carol (film)


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